Respect Confidentiality: If a gay or lesbian shares with you about his or her sexual orientation, you have a sacred trust that must be repected. The terror of homosexual youth is profound. A breach of this confidence has led some to suicide.
Be Informed: Most of us are the products of a homophobic society paralyzed by misinformation and fear. You can't be free of it just be deciding to; read reliable resources and talk to qualified persons.
Examine your own biases: Don't attempt to help others if you yourself need help. Don't add to the burden of struggling and already over-burdened teenagers by laying your problems and uncertainties on his or her shoulders.
Know when and where to seek help: Know the referral agencies and counselors in your area. Gay hotlines can provide you with the professional persons and organizations that are qualified to help. Tell them who you are and what kind of assistance you need. They will be helpful and fair.
Maintain a balanced perspective: Sexual thoughts and feelings are only a small (but important) part of a person's personality. Gay people are no more obsessed with sex than you are.
